When I think about 2013, the
first word that comes to mind is HARD.
Just-keep-putting-one-foot-in-front-of-another-and-get-through-this kind of
hard. I think about a year filled with sickness, pain and heartache.
Yet, that isn’t the entire
picture. When I really stop and think
about this year, I see a year filled with blessings, God’s provisions, and a
whole lotta grace.
I’m going to choose to focus
on that part as I send this year off into history. So, for fun, I’m going to
highlight some of my favorite parts of this year.
1) We are blessed with some
amazing friends, and even if I don’t call as much as I should (sorry), don’t
think that I take one of you for granted. I count my friends as one of my
biggest blessings. Here are just a few fun memories we had with friends this
year….
Sienna's Valentine's Day "Tea with Dolls" Party |
Our monthly Deployment Countdown Celebrations. Here we're celebrating Bill's birthday on our "3rd month done" celebration. |
CFA meals with friends |
2) Another highlight to the
year is the visitors we had this year. Want to earn some extra “treasures in
heaven”? Go visit a military family. It means SO MUCH to us. Honestly, you have
no idea how happy it makes us when you come visit.
This year, both sets of our visitors braved the El Paso heat to come visit us. That’s dedication and love!
My aunt and uncle came to
visit in early summer…
And I enjoyed a girls’
weekend with Shaena and Suzanne in the late summer…
3) I can barely type these
words with out tears filling my eyes, but here goes (please excuse typos at
this point)…God was so good to me this year. I read a Sally Clarkson blog
article recently and she basically outlined how when we’re going through a
tough season of life, God is actually holding us tighter and caring for us
more, just as a parent tends to a sick child a bit more than they might with a
child that is well. (Shout out to Sally for ALWAYS speaking to my heart right
where it’s hurting) I can give many examples of how God cared for me in His own
little way through out this year, but the one that first pops into my mind is
this one….
At what I’ll call my
“darkest hour” of the year, when I was just surviving the days and calling out
to Him for help and hope, this beautiful rainbow was waiting for me right
outside my back door. I let the dog out in the morning and – BAM! – this huge,
beautiful rainbow.
You could say it was just a
rainbow - a work of science/atmosphere/whatever - but I KNOW that God gave me
that rainbow as a visual sign of the hope and promise I have in Him. (I can
appreciate the whole Noah’s ark rainbow so much more now!)
4) Another huge boast in
morale was adding two adorable kitties to our house. They are a pain but they
bring us (us=me and Sienna) so much joy and happiness. There is something
quirky about cats' personalities that I love so much.
5) Sienna’s baptism was a
huge blessing to us too. The fact that she took the initiative and pushed to be
baptized all on her own, encouraged my heart and soul a million times a
million. I wish Bill could have been there in person (thankfully he
was able to watch online) but I know that it was all God’s timing and I'm happy to see my little ones grow in their walks with God.
6) Sometimes getting out of
the daily routine and exploring a new place is necessary to feel rejuvenated. Traveling
to Albuquerque and Santa Fe this summer with our friends was exactly that for
me. Although it was exhausting to travel outnumbered (2 Moms, 5 Kids), it was a
lot of fun and will always be a fun memory for me.
7) The turning point in the
year was when we welcomed Bill home from the deployment. We are so thankful to
have him home safely. I pray we don’t have to do that again anytime soon!! Even though it was “only 9 months” it was
incredibly hard and I’m happy to put it behind us.
8) I started homeschooling the kids this year. I love it, the kids love it, and I'm so glad I took the plunge and did it.
9) Speaking of learning, I learned how to knit this year! It's something I've always wanted to learn how to do. Be warned, I foresee lots of scarves as Christmas gifts next year.
10) Finally, to me, the
entire year has been redeemed in this one month of December. We have had so
much fun setting up our new house (which has everything I’ve ever wanted and so
much more!) and we’re enjoying all the nature (snow, birds, etc.) and having
lots and lots of family time to create new and happy memories together.
Despite the hard times, I will
look back at this year fondly and be thankful for all the blessings.
And now…Happy 2014!!!